Intemidating fight talk

Gretchen Rubin, author of , compiled a list of 23 phrases that can help couples turn a verbal brawl back down to a constructive fight.

"You don't have to solve this—it helps me just to talk to you."This is a good response to any "quit whining" complaints—a non-confrontational way to let him know you need a considerate ear not a contrary opinion. "Please try to understand my point of view."One of the first things to fly out the window during an argument is empathy.

The more the accusations escalate, the more narrow-minded both parties get.

Try this simple plea early in the argument to ensure that both of you approach the issue with the other's feelings in mind.3. Please listen."You would think listening is a built-in function of any argument, but most of the time, we're too busy calculating what to say next to truly pay attention to our partner's words.

may intimidate the human race into bringing order into its international affairs" (Albert Einstein).

Browbeat suggests the persistent application of highhanded, disdainful, or imperious tactics: browbeating a witness.

Cow implies bringing out an abject state of timorousness and often demoralization: a dog that was cowed by abuse.

To bully is to intimidate through blustering, domineering, or threatening behavior: workers who were bullied into accepting a poor contract.

He is admitted accordingly, not without a hint from the Recluse, that were he himself out of his priestly weeds, he would care little for his threats of using violence, and that he gives way to him not out of , kissing--actually kissing--an agreeable female, and leaving taxes, summonses, notices that he had called, or announcements that he would never call again, for two quarters' due, wholly out of the question.

Developing the Inner Badass Staying Above the Fray Community Q&A You know the guy — he parks his motorcycle and walks fearlessly into the bar, clad in black leather. He puts a bill on the table, which the barkeep accepts, putting a shot in front of him.

You catch a glimpse of the man’s a devil-may-care look in his eye before you quickly look away.

You’ve just seen a badass, and you like the idea of becoming one yourself.

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