Dating man separated but not divorced

Hi there, I feel like I'm to old to ask such silly questions but I somehow got into this weird situation and am already too much into this guy to get out of it again. I have been dating a seperated man for 2 month now and it's kind of complicated.

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He hardly ever spends the night at my place because (as he says) he doesn't sleep well here and needs to get rest to be able to work.

When he comes to see me in the evening, he ususally rushes out again soon under some excuses (has to go back to work, has to take his sister from work etc.).

When I told him recently that I doubt if he's actually separated, he seemed to be frankly hurt (not upset).

What hurts me most is that after all that I'm willing to tolerate (him being still married and not really wanting to get divorced because of insurance issues and his 4 (!

) kids, me always coming second to his kids, lonely christmas and weekends etc.), in return, he's not even willing to spend more nights at my place to make me believe he's actually separated.

On the other hand, he is the cutest guy you can imagine.

He really gives me a feeling of being someone special, not only by telling me but by the way he acts and cares about me.

There are various examples I could tell you but I guess this questions is already long enough..

However last time we met, when he (again) refused to stay for the night, I kind of got crazy and told him that this sucks and that he's selfish and that I don't believe him anymore that he's really separated and that this is the only reason why he doesn't want to stay.

He left without having this issue setteled down although I asked him to stay.

Next day he sent me various text messages and got a little desperate when I didn't immediately answer.

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